Peter,
that would be really great. Just use my email from my sign up and add me on IM

By: makmass - on: Feb 17, 2010

hi Makmass,

I’m sorry to hear that you’re going trough this right now, but i’m sure if you give it time enough things will turn the right way.

I don’t know you personally so it’s difficult for me to give advice or ideas on how to make you less alone, but from what I can read is that your a great person to talk with, or be with, for others when they are in need to talk or in need to have some friendship when they feel sad. Even when they don’t show it, I know having such person around is a great deal for many.

If you want we can have a little private chat on Messenger some day if you wish to have me as a friend to talk to or something. Just let me know if you want to, and I’ll will email you on the email address you’ve used during sign up on this website.

By: peter van dam - on: Feb 16, 2010

If what you say is true, then how come every guy i meet tries so hard, and then turns and cheats. Why have i been alone for so long? How come i get kicked out so easily. How come the only person i can depend on is myself. Yes i have friends, and yes we have tons of fun. But its not because of who i am, its because I can make them feel better when theyre sad. Or because they can say "oh im friends withe her" when they see me on tv or in magazines.

By: makmass - on: Feb 15, 2010

I believe that valintines day is simply a day invinted by shops to sell lovey things for those who are in love and make lots of money with it.

But not looking to that part for some it’s a helpful tool, a trigger, that allows them to take a first step in telling someone that there in love.

I definitely don’t see this as a day that is trying to tell us that we are always alone. I think we do that ourselves. If you look around, you see that your family, even when you fight all the time, they love you. And what about (old) friends, even when they don’t show it to you all the time, they kind of love you.

And what about people in your town/city? Sure right now they don’t care much about you but are you trying to make them care about you?

Personally i’ve been cutting connections with friends for years just because I preferred to work on websites. I just had one friend left that I was fearing to loose just because of something very small. Looking to family and friends seeing they had found their love I felt alone and sad, and I’m sure I would have said something like this you’ve mentioned.

But I try to change that now. Try to make new friends, real friends and hopefully find myself someone to love. I visit bars (cafe) and try to be at many public outside activities as possible and talk to the people that are there. And even me, with fear of contacting people that I don’t know, added a few new friends that I see every week just to have some fun. And now, I feel much better about myself and my view on love is like it should be.

So what i’m trying to say is... Valintines day is not a day to remember how sad we are, it’s for those who think it’s neccisary to buy love for eachother and nothing else. And for those who feel alone right now, things will be ok, but you have to spend time making it happen. You love doesn’t just ring your doorbell.

By: peter van dam - on: Feb 15, 2010